Jealousy: The Green Eyed Monster
How to nail this potentially life destroying sucker...

How you can turn jealousy into a gift...
Without pouring acid onto your partner's car, throwing their belongings into the street or burning their rabbit!
Jealousy. It’s a common experience in relationships of the romantic variety, whether for a moment or a lifetime. In fact, weassume it is almost impossible to have one without the other! Many a great book, movie or song is testament to this fact. In the early stages of relationship, before a deep level of trust has developed, or to spice things up in a flat spot, a little bit of jealousy can be a good thing. A twinge of uneasiness whilst seeing your partner across the room chatting enthusiastically to an attractive member of the opposite sex can instantly create a spurt of desire for them in yourself! But jealousy over the long term is a gut churning, painful misery, where trust and happiness seem like a distant memory. The truth is this is saying much more about YOU than your partner. Here we look at how jealousy in ourselves can be a tool for learning rather than suffering. Read on...
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