Do you somehow feel like youâ€™re missing out of something? Like there should be more to sex than this? Maybe your orgasms and/or erections arenâ€™t as enjoyable or reliable as they used to?
Especially if youâ€™re with a woman who is writhing in multi orgasmic waves of pleasure as you hold back to watch her with joy and more than a little envy?
Does it seem like the results with new toys, extra porn and even a little BDSM are disappointing despite all the hype?
Well, donâ€™t despair all is not lost, there is much more available for you than you are currently experiencing if you choose. You too can glimpse the infinite world of pleasure and even ecstasy that are like glimpsing into the 100 billion galaxies reported by NASA to exist in the universe. Sex will never be boring again...
And the first step is simply claiming more of your own pleasure. Not just in those final few seconds but only right from the beginning, but the whole way through, and with intensity of pleasure way beyond your wildest dreams... You are so good at giving and being there for your lover but it is no longer your job to simply wait until theyâ€™ve had their share. Why not join in?
Ejaculation for the man has long been viewed as the natural completion of sex, his biological need to release sperm in order to procreate and the pleasure that came with it was automatic. So in this way manâ€™s sexual pleasure has been covert, unlike a woman whose sexual pleasure is largely separate to her ability to procreate, he hasnâ€™t yet had to learn to cultivate it.
For more, read on .....
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Making "light" of depression is not as easy as it soundsâ€¦
There is a huge amount of information available about this and related topics and if your feeling slightly overwhelmed by it all, this Youtube link may help.
The most important step is to start doing something about it, and any step is important. Small steps are good and finding support for yourself during your journey is important. Oztantra can offer you experienced and practical support for you in your everyday life in working through this in a way that is positive and creative.
If you do nothing else, watch this Link to a Ted talk by Stephen llardi, which I believe is hugely relevant to any body who is or may know some one who is susceptible. By following this link will also give access to other Youtube video's of similar topics. This can be a very important source of quality free information.
This link is to an article that was recently published about a small part of my journey through depression.
Graeme from Oztantra
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