The Art of Quickie Sex:
Tantra is not only about slow, transcendent lovemaking...the quickie in the hall cupboard can still benefit from Tantric skills...
Tantra is famous for long, slow sex. People often fear if they learn Tantra, The Quickie, in the the hall closet (or wherever else takes your fancy) will be forbidden.
Yet Tantra is about saying YES to everything without judgement.
So why not still include a little bit of edgy play in your sex life, eroticism that has the quality we can love to feel- the naughty "I know I shouldn't but I really, really want to" push-pull we're conditioned from childhood to feel about sex.
Bringing in your authenticity, heart openness,courage, presence and use of conscious breath is only going to enhance the experience. You actively choose to go there, rather than relying on your hormonal drive to take you. And don't worry, there is enough shadow in our culture about sex for there to be an unlimited supply of "naughtiness" to explore, even if you've been practicing deshaming sex for years....
The results can be exhilarating!
So discuss with your partner what would be a "naughty" sexual practice for you?
It could be a quickie in the hall cupboard, sex with the possibility of being seen, using handcuffs, masturbating in front of each other, the list is endless...
Once you've each expressed a desire agree on the boundaries of the experience for each of you and give yourselves permission to play!
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