PUBLIC SPEAKING GODDESS RETREAT
August 14-17, 2014, N NSW
Well... maybe you aren't sure about being an Actual Goddess unless you get to swan around in long flimsy robes and eat chocolate... and that can be arranged...
But what you'd really like is to get over being so nervous and avoidant about public speaking. Just to be able to speak up, stand your ground and sell your stuff. With professional presence. That's all.
Do yourself a favour and learn how to do all that in our 4 day, 3 night Public Speaking Goddess Retreat Spectacular. Just for 10 bold women and 3 spots have already been taken... Early Bird by July 10, 2014.
Email Geraldine asap to register your interest by May 12th.
6 WEEKS TO FREE YOUR INNER PUBLIC SPEAKER
May 12-June 23, 2014
Slow & steady weekly course, 2 hours each Monday night, 6-8pm Mullumbimby. Register by May 8th at byroncollege.org.au
I Got An Interview!
How To Talk To The Media
Woo hoo! You are invited to give an interview to someone in the media, or, you have cleverly initiated this opportunity to reach a large number of people. The Media I’m referring to includes: Print (magazines, papers), Radio (phone, studio), Electronic (TV, online, social media, webinars) and Live (panels, forums, events).
Media interviews spread your message and do your marketing work for you. Well, that’s the ideal outcome and often what is dangled in front of you. The reality often falls short and maybe just your mum will stay up to watch the 2am television interview or read the obscure Etruscan Vessels Quarterly magazine. But sometimes, a media interview will generate increased attention, sales and PR opportunities for your organisation.
I Didn’t Say That!
Media interviews are often set up as a series of highly structured and tightly controlled questions and answers. But not always. Here’s some examples of the unexpected which I’m sharing not to frighten you but to help you stay relaxed and alert:
Recently I gave a short radio interview and in the preliminary phone call I was told the theme was famous people who suffered stage fright. Could I provide tips for handling nerves? Well… the interviewer only asked me about tips for giving wedding speeches; the area in which I do the least amount of work. I just scrambled along as best I could, live on air and survived, as you do.
A client was invited to be interviewed by a well known current affairs program. She turned up to find a camera operator and a wall which she had to talk to and pretend was a person. Luckily the camera operator was kind and patient.
Once you’ve done a few of these you realise that nothing you say bares any resemblance to what gets printed. Do your best not to swear or reveal your mental health problems. Or even that you know what a mental health problem is, because you may find you have one when you read the article the next day!
A friend of mine was invited with 24 hours notice to speak at a football stadium of 50,000 in Bangladesh, plus multiple TV cameras. She was the only white face and the translator kept every one laughing. However, she wasn’t saying anything funny! My friend realised she had to let go of her nerves and fears of being misquoted. Every one apparently had a very good time and eventually, so did she.
Tips To Handle Media Interviews:
• Be organised and prepared – think about the ramifications of this opportunity and strategise how you can make the most of it. If you are organised, you will think and speak clearly and get your message across effectively. This is not the time to be star struck and rely on “winging it.” Find out if you can “proof” the interview before it’s released and how you can copy and distribute it yourself.
• Research – read, listen or watch previous interviews by your interviewer to become familiar with their style and expectations. Observe how previous interviewees handled themselves.
• Who, what, when and why – make up the structure of an interview. Make sure you can answer each. Ensure you have an expert understanding of your subject and are abreast of current hot topics.
• You may receive a list of questions in advance - if so, practise answering them flexibly off the cuff; don’t memorise because the questions may change. If there are topics you won’t talk about, advise them in writing and remind the interviewer on the day.
• Live TV, radio or online – remember to follow the host’s directions as they want you to be at your best. Aim to genuinely converse with the host in normal conversation, letting them lead you with their questions. You may enjoy yourself so much you forget this person is not really your friend! You must remember you are there to do a job and so are they… so watch what you say.
• Stick to your core message - be grounded and clear about your purpose, which is why you have been asked to speak in the first place. Don’t divulge personal or irrelevant details about your divorce, weight gain or fears about handling media interviews… unless they are the topic!
• Hone and practise your core message so that when you are asked about it, you will articulate who you are and what you offer with ease, authenticity and professionalism.
Prepare, Relax And Let Go!
You may find it useful to observe how I handle speaking to a video camera when I present my 3 Minute Video Tips. I use a conversational, natural style to suit my audience (that's you!) and a specific video message: “Everyone can speak in public with as much confidence and authenticity as they do in their own lounge room.” Choose a style that is right for you, your audience and your message. I will write an article on Talking To Cameras in another issue. In the meantime, if you’d like some professional help with handling your next media interview, contact me for private coaching.
* Much of this article is a creative excerpt from my e-book, Crafting & Presenting, available for purchase from my website.
Time To Take Your Cool, Calm & Connected Pulse!
Using the Calm Barometer below, rate how cool, calm and connected you feel right now between 1 and 10...
When you speak, lead and live with natural ease and authenticity, you will be closer to 10.
When you feel scattered, distracted or unconfident, you will be closer to 1.
What To Do: If you are "7" or above today, notice what's working well and keep doing it. Accept that daily variations in confidence and clarity are normal. If you are below "7" today, listen to our free recording of the 5 minute Inner Calm exercise. You can also download our 2 free A4 Posters of Inner Calm and the Calm Barometer for your wall.
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