This week, we are discussing:

Making better decisions

The 3 decisions you make every second.

change you decisions and you will change your world.

We are all making decisions all the time. Decisions are the force that shape destiny. Many of us can think of a decision, that if in that moment we had made a different decision, would have changed our lives. Are we Always going to make the right decisions – no. Are we always making a decision - yes.

'But most people don’t want to make the tough decisions because they want to make the right decision and if they are unsure they make no decision, which is also a decision.' Tony Robbins. When people don't make a decision the world takes them over. No decision is still a decision and all these have consequences. Making better decisions starts by being aware that we are always deciding what we will do. There are 3 decisions we make every moment that affects our life.

What do you focus on?

Your needs or others etc.

What can you control?
If you focus on what you cannot control you will feel out of control and powerless. If you shift your focus you will find things you can control

What ever you focus on you will experience.

If you focus on how it didn’t work out rather than what you learned you will not feel as good about your decisions.
The ultimate decision is the decision to choose again.

At different stages you must change your focus.
You will have to make different decisions for a teenager as opposed to infant.

Focus = feeling. Whatever you focus on you will feel.

What does this mean?

Is this the end or the beginning?
Would you act different if you saw it as the beginning rather than the end.
Treat people at the end of relationship the way you would treat them at the beginning. Make a decision in your relationships to treat every day as a new beginning.

Is this punishment or a gift.
Whatever meaning you give controls how you feel.

What are you going to do?

Decision making is your power.
When you have the awareness around the thoughts that help you make decisions, you can make better decisions.

Enjoy.

have a great week.

Til next time

Sherry

Making better decisions

The 3 decisions you make every second.

Leadership coaching via skype.

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