MarriedPeople Monthly



Each month, we share ideas and insights you can actually apply to your marriage. So try a few of the tips below and see how little things can turn into something big. You got this... because you are better at marriage than you think!

A real interview with a real couple

What Still Surprises You About Your Spouse?

Debbie: I’m still surprised by how faithful John is to meet with and listen to God. How he continues to copy Scripture so he can pay attention to every word. John’s humility and integrity even when it hurts. How much he loves and respects me after all these years! 

How much I still need him to tell me he loves me and he tells me often. How he moves towards me when he would rather walk away. How much he supports me with all that he manages for our family. By how much I still learning from him. 

John: I'm still surprised by how much Debbie still loves, respects, and desires me. How high capacity she is and gets more done than any human being I know. How much attention she pays to the little things in life. How much she loves God, the whole Bible and loves learning and talking about it.

How adaptable she is to so many people. How competitive she is. She makes a contest of everything. And she wins. How much she aches over the brokenness of loved ones. 
John and Debbie Woodall have been married for 42 years. 

Simple things can become hot button issues


Simple Things That Can Dramatically Impact Your Marriage

One of my biggest fears in marriage is that Kristen and I would just co-exist in a good marriage. Because she is such a low maintenance wife, I can take her for granted or even take advantage of her. I don’t want this to be our story.

I’ve thought of at least four potential dangers or fears for those of us who are married to a low maintenance spouse. I don’t want to be the guy who takes his wife for granted.

From Scott Kedersha

4 Things to Fear When Your Spouse Is Low Maintenance
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Spice things up in your bedroom


One Tip That Will Bring You Closer in the Bedroom

Yes, the idea of leaving the lights on during sex can be scary for many women. But in my years of social research, I have uncovered many truths that men wish we knew, but they don’t know how to tell us.

I heard the heart behind this wish—and discovered five surprising reasons to take the risk.


From Shaunti Feldhahn

5 Reasons To Leave the Lights on During Sex


During one meal this week, ask each other this question: 


How would it look if the two of us had to swap professions with each other?

Get plugged in with your spouse


The Best Gift You Can Give Your Spouse Is a Healthy You

Last month, we shared 30 questions for your wife. This month, we get the other side of the coin.

Ladies, be curious about your husband. Ditch the obligatory “How was your day?” and replace it with unique, thought provoking, open-ended questions.

Demonstrating genuine interest in your husband and opening dialogue shows that you care and enhances one of the joys of marriage—the sharing of lives.



30 Questions To Ask Your Husband


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